Duped: I Picked You
For those of us who are intuitive, trust our gut, know what we want, and know ourselves well, it’s no small matter for us to pick someone out of a crowd, literally or figuratively, to invest time into.
When we are naturally-drawn to someone, it’s an infrequent, rare occurrence; thus, we take it pretty seriously.
Even if it seems as simple as interest-at-first-sight, we generally assume that it goes deeper than that. Likely, there is some sort of spiritual connection. And potentially, we could be attracted to the person due to some sort of emotional healing that we each need to address, and our interactions with each other could tap into these areas.
Even so, we could be swept up, simply due to being amazed by the rarity of our being drawn to this person.
Slow down. Pause. Let things unfold very slowly. Don’t let your being swept-up blind you to who and what the person actually is. Be aware that you could be drawn to this person due to some old unhealed pain—so watch for triggers and red flags.
Even if there are triggers and red flags, you don’t have to let the person go. But stay emotionally-detached as you see what unhealed issues the triggers point to in you; and address those areas within yourself. Again, staying emotionally-detached and being present with yourself is crucial.
Check out these other articles in this ‘Duped in a Relationship’ series: