What Would Your Life Look Like, If…

I asked my heart-broken client, “If you had a relationship with her again, what would your life look like?

“I think it would be helpful to actually write an essay of what you think your life would realistically look like with her.”

In my own experiences, if I were to imagine being back with my ex-partner, my ex-partner would have to change morally, ethically and spiritually—which, of course, will never happen. I know, because I tried for years to get my ex-partner to see what is right and wrong , and why it’s important to stand on and for principles and ethics—which was actually the responsibility of my ex-partner’s parents in childhood, and now is my ex-partner’s responsibility out of concern for my ex’s own soul and spirit.

Recognizing that I don't like who this person actually is on a moral/ethics/spiritual basis, as-is, is important information because it shows that what I have wanted with this person is hopeless.

There are many things that I loved about the shell of the relationship; about the nice things my ex did for me; and about how much and how deeply I have loved and adored my ex-partner.  But that still doesn't change the fact that this person has poor morals, ethics, and is spiritually-corrupt.

I thank God that I no longer will treat myself so poorly by being with such a person..

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